Agree with Johnny, here. Why do women choose older men? I don't particularly care for shaming consenting adults, though.

Anecdote: the majority of women I've dated had signifcant relationships with older men, as in 10+ years older. These were smart, savvy women when I knew them. They may have admitted to not paying attention to red flags, they may have regretted time lost, but not one identified as a victim.