Agreed! From about 2007-2017, I saw it regularly and stridently. I usually steered away from that because I don't think it needs to be said. When I was seeking relationship while my child was still at home, I viewed it as having twin priorities. And they didn't really compete with each other. Well, until I dated a woman who did actually feel that way. It didn't matter that I spent way more time with her and dogs than she ever spent with me and my kid.