Hey, I'm a fabulous success. And I've owned my shit pretty completely. I also challenge men for the roles they play in being absent in parenting. None of that changes that the 'nice guy' messaging we receive comes from women. And neither am I that harsh on women for that message... just calling it for what it is. It is fair to challenge it and point it out. But I don't stop there. I want to help men and give them more useful advice.
Also, there's a range of adult men; guys in their teens, to twenty somethings to guys struggling to make sense of life post-divorce. Not all men struggling with mixed messages are sitting in their basement playing video games complaining why hot women don't want to fuck them.