I suspect a gentleman above is deeply wounded about lies or untruthfulness that he does not associate with rape. Possibly because considering it rape would be emasculating.

You said: It would be more productive to educate men to look into why they feel they need to fake relationships to 'get' sex.

Some men are simply users. Full stop.

My particular gripe with women, because that's who I dated, and my experience, (#notallwomen) is why do women withhold information they know would likely lead one to decline sex or relationship with them?

One woman actually told me: she didn't want to be judged. I, on the other hand, revealed all. I expect to be judged. That is fair. I would rather have all the skeletons out of the closet, and be rejected, before getting naked, than after. I do not like losing intimacy, and I do not like intimacy on a false pretense.