In my experience it’s about 50/50 who choses/who rejects.

There are plenty of terms for men: provider, deadbeat, tall dark and handsome, bad boy, keeper, player, tool, jock, BMOC, frat boy, nice guy… all describe and place men in a box by perceived characteristics. There’s also adjectives that connote a certain type as well, like creep, jerk, needy, asshole, etc. All of these are gender specific. How many of them are positive?