André Alyeska
Jan 21, 2022

Thanks for commenting.

I’ve definitely heard guys call women gold-diggers or be harshly critical of single moms. I wish guys could/would express themselves better.

For example, I’ve seen the frustration that we’ve been told it’s all about equality, but some women still want a provider. (This is different than wanting an equal.) I’ve also heard some men say they’ve been criticized for not wanting to date someone with kids.

I think it’s totally legit to point out hypocrisy that it’s shallow to be interested in someone because of money or not enough. It’s also a valid for men (or women) to say they don’t want to take on someone else’s kid.

André Alyeska
André Alyeska

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Editor of Animated Man, Time Traveler and QMHA. Writes on Politics, Social Issues, Men, Mental Health, and Mindfulness with the goal to fix this mess we’re in.

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