Yeah. I'm kind of surprised how few others have mentioned this. Of 34 comments (at the time of my reply) only two others mentioned the boyfriend, and one called it a growing opportunity for him, and that she was being her 'authentic self.'

I mean, on one hand it's a sweet story to remember the father's wishes, but I'm not sure she's actually remembering the father to the child. And then to say the boyfriend, who's been a father figure, isn't even a part of a discussion? And her husband is still in her head like she describes?

It's one thing to co-parent with a living and involved ex, but to co-parent with a ghost, and you don't even get to have a say? I don't see the relationship with her boyfriend lasting. It sounds like she's still grieving.